debate but dont debate..

i decided to do mother hood because i can relate to it. My mother wasnt my friend but my mother and i think that i turned out pretty good. I used to want a friend relationship with my mother but then i realized i want someone who's going to show me wrong from right. Teach me how to be a lady and not a sex object. So I'm glad my mother was my mother and not my friend. Sometimes i think parents get so confused in wanting to be accepted by their kids that they end up turning into Friends. Saying things that you shouldn't say to your mother the one who birthed you. take for instance when Sula disrespected her grandmother even though she not her mother she felt that it was okay to talk like that to her grandmother she even has the audacity to threaten her. if i ever even try to raise my voice when talking to my mother i would be picking up my teeth but since i was raised to respect my elders i know what to say and what not. that can get me in trouble. i feel pretty good on my claim i feel like its deep but understandable at the same time.